There are moments we label ourselves with tags like ‘unfortunate,’ ‘unlucky,’ ‘failure,’ and all sorts of negative titles. Unknown to us, our labels and wrong choices keep us in challenging situations. Have you ever been in a situation where you ask yourself why you are so unlucky or unfortunate or why life is so unfair to you? If you have found yourself asking yourself such a question, I want to encourage you to go back and trace the roots of some issues in your life. 

For instance, if you label yourself as being unlucky with getting your desired job, I would like you to stop for a moment and rethink. Why can you not get your dream job? Am I unemployed because of my educational background, language deficiency, poor application, or because I do not understand how to apply for a job? You need to ask yourself technical questions and properly navigate through the root cause of the problem. You might get an understanding of the root cause of the problem and find ways to resolve it instead of falsely labelling yourself.